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Children of Divorce Speak Out
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| 1. We love and need both of you. |
| 2. We are not your messengers. If you have something to say to my other parent, tell them yourself. |
| 3. We know you are hurting, scared and upset. So are we! |
| 4. We know you are probably doing the best you can. So are we! |
| 5. Please don't say bad things about our other parent. It makes us feel really bad. |
| 6. Please don't ask us to choose sides. That's not fair. |
| 7. Don't make us feel we are being disloyal because we enjoy being with our other parent. |
| 8. This may not have been your choice, but remember, it is not our choice either. |
| 9. Please don't tell us details about the divorce that we don't understand or need to know. |
| 10. Please don't make us the "man" or the "lady" of the house. We are just kids. Let us be kids!!! |
